Do you like the same old books you used to read when you were kids, or do you have the same music taste you used to have a decade ago or do you have the same routine you used to follow back when you were in school or are you the same human you were, years back? You might just realise how much you have changed over the years. My music love was more of Taylor Swift and Christina Perri some five years back and now there’s more of Drake and Coldplay. Over the years as you shift places not all of your friends stick around, you lose many on the go and you make new ones. You have a more profound thinking and you are a little less baffled about your principles and your future.

All the more, change seems beautiful and without change life seems to be irksome. Dead ideas need to fall off just like withered leaves. Talking about it, have you always liked a change? I have not, truly. It’s not always like altering your room’s quirky orange wallpaper or modifying your old T-shirt by cutting out a neck detailing. World’s beyond all groovy stuff.

A lot of people want me to change because they want me to develop into someone better, not because they do not accept me as I am but because they want me to adorn my personality. That is so sweet of them to love me beyond limits as to want the best of me to show up. But then I just believe in individuality, everyone has a varied sense of choices. What seems perfect according to you might just seem to be a bad idea to me. Traits have a similar story. When I’ll want a change, in my opinions, my nature, I’ll change. It’s only when I find a change appealing enough to be a part of me, will I own it. Don't ever force to change someone from being what they have chosen for their selves.

If an egg be broken by an outside force, life ends. If an inside force cracks it up, life begins. Great things always spark off from within. A change seems beautiful only when you own the tag of bringing it about uncoerced.

PS: To those who want a change in you because they want you to fit in according to their wants, you better say ‘fuck off’ because such people shouldn’t hold a place in your lives. What’s important is you be comfortable in your skin and fuck the world. The universe is too big to give a damn.